When I spray SS with a flattening agent I usually mix my
Reducer/
Flattener/
Hardener in one cup. Then add it to my cup of base.
I find it mixes in better that way.
I sprayed it like clear.
And as far as gloss. With the PPG system I was using. I didn't see the final result for well over 12 hours.
I was also told when de-glossing Single stage that you should up the ratio a bit because Single Stage black is harder to flatten then Base/Clear.
I can't recall my ratio to achieve the semi gloss black.
But as I recall using their gloss scale, I just used the next step down.
I wanted semi gloss so I mixed for egg shell. Which I seem to recall being pretty close to 1:1 (Just under)
And to be honest, it still came out a tad glossier than Semi gloss.
But it looked good none the less.